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The Light at the Center of Pain

2/11/2016

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Any kind of long-lived pain eventually sinks into and penetrates to the deepest levels of the Self.
 
This deeper level is very intimate with the Soul and lies close to who we think we are. It feels like the pain becomes intertwined with and seemingly inseparable from us at our core.
 
I have become this pain. This pain has become me.

The Long Tendrils of Pain

It’s as if pain sends tendrils inward from surface experience, down, down, down into the center of the Self to grow roots there. 
 
Maybe it’s also that there is already a well of pain somewhere in all of us. It’s part of being human. Most of us only touch into it briefly when we meet life’s challenges, difficulties, and losses, and then we (mostly) return to life as usual.
 
Some of us go wading in the pool from time to time, and some of us end up immersed in it, unable to find our way out again because it seems that we are in a cistern with slippery sides and no footholds. 
 
Once any pain has stayed and stayed and stayed, the experience is one of submersion of the self - a  forced immersion into the inner worlds because we have lost most of our outer world and, ultimately, we are left with only ourselves. Just us with us.


What Chronic Pain Demands

I think that’s part of what chronic pain is, somehow - or what it demands - a sinking into the deeper levels of the self to take a difficult and often dark journey to the core of who we are.
 
If we allow ourselves to follow the tendrils of pain inward and down, all the way to their roots and then not stop there, just keep going deeper and deeper (trying not to fight it too much), we may pass through that inner pool, or field, of pain, but if we keep going, we find the essential self just beyond, fine and bright and clear as it has always been. 
 
It seems that, at least for some of us, the path to the core of the self requires us to go through the pain in order to reach the brightness at the center.


What We Bring Back

And I think we can pull something from there, some light and some knowing, and travel back out with it, passing through the pain field again, but this time the pain is lessened, is not so penetrating.

We emerge back into our lives with something impossibly beautiful - some knowing, some understanding, some pure experience of our most true self - that is  wise and dear and valuable.

Pain may still be there in our outer experience, but there is also the experience of this astonishingly clear and unexpectedly beautiful Center.
 
This wisdom, this knowing, this offering, is informed by pain, yes, but is not made entirely of pain. It has deepened and been strengthened by its journey through pain, and emerges clear and authentic, carrying a core of light at its center.


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Image: Resting, Victor Gabriel Gilbert, 1890 (Wikimedia Commons)
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Sarah Anne Shockley is the author of The Pain Companion series of books on holistic pain management and pain relief. Visit her at www.thepaincompanion.com for resources for people in chronic pain and more information on her work.

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12/7/2020 09:45:39 pm

Thanks for sharing thhis

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